Choosing a Wedding Photographer for Your Unique Love Story


Choosing a wedding photographer is an incredibly personal decision, especially for couples who want their wedding to authentically reflect who they are. Whether your celebration is non-traditional, geeky, artistic, alternative, or simply centered on your love story instead of a big production, finding the right photographer is key to preserving the memories of your day. Here are the questions to ask to ensure you find someone who truly aligns with your vision:


What is your photography style?


This is one of the most important questions to ask because it directly impacts the kind of photos you'll receive. There are three common styles to choose from, each with a unique approach.


  • Traditional: This style includes posed group shots and carefully planned moments like the first kiss, cake cutting, and bouquet toss. It's ideal for couples who prefer classic, timeless images but might not fully capture the spontaneous, raw emotions of the day.
  • Contemporary: If you love storytelling and artistic expression, this is for you. Contemporary photographers focus on candid moments that showcase your personality, using creative compositions and modern editing styles, such as cinematic tones or dark and moody vibes. This style is perfect for couples getting married in unconventional venues, like a forest clearing, a cool urban rooftop, or even a quirky backyard.
  • Photojournalistic: This documentary-style approach captures the day as it naturally unfolds. Think unscripted moments, stolen glances, and heartfelt laughter. Photojournalistic photographers act as observers, blending into the background and utilizing natural light to preserve the day's authentic beauty. If your goal is to relive every emotional moment, this might be the one for you.


The key is choosing a photographer whose style resonates with how you want to remember your day - whether it's vibrant, moody, or joyfully raw.


Can we see a full wedding gallery?


Highlights are great, but a full gallery will show you the photographer's ability to document an entire day - the big, emotional moments and the quieter, intimate ones in between. Look for consistency and attention to detail throughout.


Have you worked with couples like us at our type of venue?


It's not just about experience - it's about connection. If your photographer understands and appreciates your unique style, whether it's nerdy, nature-inspired, or avant-garde, they're more likely to deliver images that feel true to you. While familiarity with your venue is a bonus, an enthusiastic and resourceful photographer who's willing to scout the location in advance can bring fresh, creative perspectives.


How do you handle changing or low-light situations?


Weddings evolve over several hours, often shifting from bright outdoor ceremonies to moody indoor receptions. A skilled photographer knows how to adapt to varying light conditions, using techniques like flash photography or natural light manipulation to ensure your images shine no matter the setting.


What packages do you offer, and how flexible are they?


Ask about packages that fit your unique celebration. Look for options like all-day coverage, elopement-specific packages, or add-ons like engagement sessions or bridal sessions. The right photographer will offer flexibility to meet your needs.


What's your backup plan for emergencies?


Life happens, even on wedding days. A reliable photographer should have contingency plans for equipment malfunctions or personal emergencies, including backup gear and a network of fellow professionals they can call on.


When and how will we receive our photos?


Ask about their delivery timeline and process. Many photographers provide online galleries with high-resolution images and print releases, so you can relive your memories whenever and however you'd like.


Do we connect personally?


This might not be a question you ask outright, but it's something to feel out during your consultation. Your photographer will be by your side throughout one of the most important days of your life, so it's essential to feel comfortable and understood. Trust your gut - someone who genuinely cares about your love story will naturally make you feel at ease.


A Final Note from Me


As a photographer, I'm not just here to document your day - I'm here to help tell your love story in a way that feels true who you are. My goal is to capture every laugh, tear, and meaningful glance so you can relive the magic forever.


Your wedding isn't about meeting expectations - it's about celebrating your love authentically. And that's how I approach every wedding I photograph. If that sounds like what you're looking for, let's chat.


Contact me today to schedule a consultation call.